Military spouses’ role in defense communities continues to grow and more advocates are helping raise their voices to defense leaders. A member of ADC’s Military Spouse Leadership Initiative and host of The Desk of a Navy Wife Reyna Worthy recently spoke with On Base about the importance of supporting military spouses and how they can seize the new opportunity.
ADC: Why is information so crucial for new military spouses?
Worthy: Information is crucial for new military spouses because many enter this life with little to no prior knowledge of military culture which is a world that operates with its own set of norms, traditions, and challenges. Having access to accurate, timely information can prevent spouses from feeling lost, isolated, or overwhelmed.
It provides a sense of direction, helps them navigate the transitions with confidence, and fosters a stronger sense of belonging within a community that often moves and changes rapidly. Information isn’t just power, it’s connection, empowerment, and peace of mind for those beginning their journey in military life.
ADC: What advice do you have for people becoming military spouses?
Worthy: Great question. My advice for new military spouses is to remain open. Open to new experiences, friendships and opportunities for growth. Understand that challenges will come, and it’s okay not to have all the answers right away. Each season of military life brings change, and embracing that change with flexibility and resilience will make the journey easier.
Most importantly, don’t wait for community; create it. You’re stepping into a world where connection is built, not handed to you. Be willing to ask questions, seek understanding and get involved, whether it’s through advocacy efforts, base programs or simple acts of outreach. Every question asked and every connection made strengthens not just you but the community as a whole.
ADC: What can communities do to help support military spouses?
Worthy: Support for military spouses must be intentional and collaborative.
First, the military community itself can go beyond creating flyers or one-time events by showing up, attending spouse groups, participating in town halls and listening to real experiences. It’s about fostering an environment where families feel safe advocating for their health, housing and quality of life without fear of retaliation.
Second, local communities can extend their support through partnerships, offering employment opportunities that go beyond admin work, hosting food drives, building community gardens and ensuring resources are accessible to those living near bases.
Lastly, the military spouse community has a vital role: stay connected, attend events and learn who your decision-makers and advocates are. Know your housing representative, school liaison, healthcare contact and workforce development lead. Empowerment begins with awareness, and when spouses and communities work hand in hand, it creates a stronger, more resilient force behind every service member.
ADC’s Military Spouse Leadership Initiative is supported by Liberty Family Housing.
