While national efforts and support are crucial, the quality of life for our military families is ultimately shaped within defense communities. Too often, discussions and decisions about important issues like housing, education, and childcare exclude the very groups most impacted – our military spouses and families. We believe spouses should have a seat at the table, with opportunities to become leaders and active participants in local decision-making that directly impacts their lives.
ADC’s Military Spouse Leadership Initiative fosters a new approach to defense community leadership by integrating military spouses at every stage of their military journey. This initiative is redefining the role of military spouse-leaders by creating opportunities for them to engage with communities at both local and national levels. Our vision is a future where spouse-leaders are fully integrated into the leadership of our defense communities and are equipped to become advocates and change agents in every defense community they will call home.
This initiative is made possible through ADC’s partnership with Liberty Military Housing.
Questions? Contact our iniative coordinator, Nonja Hayden.
Meet the 2025 – 2026 Military Spouses
Brittany Bell
Camp Pendleton, CA
Bio
Paul Butler
Joint Base Lewis McChord, WA
Bio
Paul has been an Air Force spouse for over eight years and is currently living at Joint Base Lewis-McChord, preparing to PCS to Randolph AFB in Texas. While at JBLM, Paul was one of the initial members of the Community Mayor Program when it began on base. Serving more than four years in that position, he interacted with base leadership and the community to help find solutions for issues regarding the base and housing. Paul also serves as a docent at the Lewis Army Museum on Fort Lewis, giving tours and interacting with visitors of all ages. Coming from a family of veterans, Paul has a unique view of the issues surrounding military families and the challenges they face. That’s why he finds advocating for those families the most rewarding.
Ayana Garcia
Fort Carson, CO
Bio
A passionate civic leader and military spouse advocate, Ayana Garcia builds bridges between military families and their communities through inclusive leadership, policy engagement, and coalition-building. She volunteers with the Colorado Springs Military Spouse Coalition, serves as Director of Policy for the Philippine American Chamber of Commerce of Southern Colorado, and helps guide civic participation through local board and commission appointments. Named the 2025 Armed Forces Insurance Fort Carson Military Spouse of the Year® and Army Branch Finalist, Ayana strives to ensure every military spouse feels seen, supported, and equipped to thrive wherever service takes them.
Gisselle Hassan Curnutt
Fort Bragg, NC
Bio
Gisselle is the Community Engagement Manager for Veterans Bridge Home and a Military Spouse Ambassador for American Corporate Partners. A former lawyer with experience in international law, higher education, and nonprofit leadership, she brings a global perspective and bilingual skills to her work. Based in North Carolina, she supports military communities through events, outreach, and strategic partnerships. Her own career journey as a military spouse fuels her passion to advocate for meaningful employment opportunities for fellow spouses.
Stephanie Holets
U. S. Army Garrison Stuttgart, Germany
Bio
Stephanie is a Department of Defense civilian with experience leading community readiness and resilience efforts across military branches. Based at USAG Stuttgart, she supports one of the most complex joint communities in the DoD. As a military spouse of 12 years, she brings both professional expertise and lived perspective to issues impacting military families. She has led initiatives in spouse employment, newcomer integration, and community engagement. Stephanie is committed to strengthening defense communities through collaboration, operational insight, and mission-focused execution.
River Lopez
Joint Base Lewis McChord, WA
Bio
River is a doctoral researcher examining military culture and leadership behaviors through the lens of organizational psychology in her current PhD program. As the 2025 JBLM Volunteer of the Year and Shield of Sparta recipient, she leads her installation as a community club president and Girl Scout leader for military youth. Her work connects generations; bridges families, retirees, and service members through coordinated outreach and advocacy. Deeply rooted in the military lifestyle, River’s insights are also shaped by her husband’s prior service in the Navy and current service in the Army.
Merrianne Nissly
MCAS Beaufort, SC
Bio
Merrianne has been a military spouse for 13 years and has navigated 7 DITY moves. She is a homeschool mom, co-founder of Generational Sisterhood, and serves as President of the Military Spouse Association of Beaufort. She actively volunteers with her husband’s unit and strives to empower her community through the resources and deep connections the base offers. Rooted in her faith, Merrianne encourages military spouses to bravely go first, share their stories, and leave a lasting legacy wherever they’re stationed.
Lisa Slaba
Eielson Air Force Base, AK
Bio
A dedicated military spouse of nine years, Lisa has been stationed at Eielson AFB, AK since the fall of 2021. She has a passion for connecting service members and their families with local and national resources, hoping they can navigate military life more easily. Lisa is a strong advocate for military spouses finding meaningful employment and safe, quality childcare. Her previous experience in economic development and the co-coordination of the Alaska Defense Forum inspired her to pursue a master’s degree in public policy to better advocate for military families across the DoD and the Arctic.
Randall White
Mississippi National Guard
Bio
Randall is a Certified Financial Planner™ (CFP®) with a deep passion for helping clients secure their financial futures. As a military spouse of nearly 10 years, she has become a trusted resource among service members commuting from across Mississippi. Randall previously served as the Family Readiness Group (FRG) leader for her husband’s former unit and is currently a member of the Defense Communities Development Council. In her free time, she enjoys spending time with her husband, son, and three dogs, as well as traveling and reading.
Reyna Worthy
NAS Key West, FL
Bio
Reyna Worthy is a government contractor and a proud military spouse of more than a decade. She began her journey by supporting transitioning service members and fellow spouses in adjusting to post-military life. Reyna currently serves as an Ombudsman for her spouse’s command and is a passionate advocate for military families. As the authentic and purpose-driven founder of The Desk of a Navy Wife, she uses her platform to amplify spouses’ voices, share resources, and build a strong, resilient community that’s rooted in real experiences and connection.
Defining Homefront Readiness:
The Role of Military Families in National Security
This paper addresses how stability of the homefront is a critical and under-recognized component of national defense, and military families and spouses are at the heart of homefront readiness. Its authors suggest that the gaps in military family support require a whole-of-nation approach, engaging DoD, state and local governments, chambers of commerce, and military families.
Questions? Want to schedule a meeting with the authors?
Program Timeline
June 2, 2025
Nomination period opens
June 30, 2025
Nomination period closes
July 24, 2025
2025-2026 cohort of spouses announced
August 1, 2025
Cohort orientation and training begins
Oct 27 – 29, 2025
Spouses attend Installation Innovation Forum 2025, Monterey, CA
Nov – Dec 2025
The Installation Innovation After Action Report is created and shared.
Dec 2025 – April 2026
Cohort training and Capstone project work
May 10 – 13, 2026
Spouses attend Defense Communities National Summit & ADC 50th Anniversary Celebration
May 30, 2026
2025-2026 cohort final meeting & the Defense Communities National Summit After Action Report is shared.

